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18th. June 2008

Ms. Kay Danes

Dear Kay,

Just a note to thank you for your presentation to the Redlands Probus Club yesterday. As it was a "Ladies Day" we had about 100 present. You are probably aware that our members are all retired and have come from a wide range of occupations.

You may be interested to learn that this was one of the best "Ladies Days" we have had and your presentation was very well received. The fact that you actually experienced the events you described added considerable weight to what you said. The additional information displayed by Power Point made everyone aware of possible dangers when traveling overseas. I'm sure the information you provided has not only made us more aware of possible hostility to travelers but also given us cause to consider the plight of those who have, and are, suffering unjustly.

We know you were limited for time and we can only regret that we did not hear more of your current activities in preventing the abuse of human rights in other places.

With your ease of presentation and your engaging personality we feel sure you will be much in demand as a speaker. We wish you well in your future endeavours.

Sincerely,

Denis

Denis J.Pickwell

President
Redlands Probus Clu


Kay brings to the subject matter a clarity that can only be gained through personal experience. Her dedication to help others via her writing and speaking is commendable. Recently I had the pleasure of (re)introducing Kay, and daughter Jessica to former foreign affairs minister Alexander Downer. Mr Downer worked tirelessy to have Kay and Kerry freed from their detention in Laos. It was a special moment to see them meet face to face for the first time.

Andrew Laming
Australian Government
Federal Member for Bowman


Once again I would like to express my gratitude to Kay Danes for her care and insight into the feelings of hopelessness and distress caused by loss of freedom coupled with inhumane treatment. She could have breathed a big sigh of relief when she was free from Laos, and put it behing her..instead she has made helping others the focus of her life. As usual, whenever I read the Foreign Prisoner Support Website my heart breaks. I wish I could sweep everybody up in my arms and comfort them. I can't do that but Kay is doing more than that. She extends hope and support to those who are languishing in perpetual despair. Her words of comfort to me have been invaluable. I hope that the cause and crusade that she has set herself upon will grow and effectively bring about better conditions and hope for those of us on the 'inside and outside'.

Shirley Morris
[Durham, UK]
Campaign for Alan Hodgson [My Son]
Alan Hodgson Case Information


Dear Kay and Kerry,

After reading your book I can only feel sorrow and sadness for the treatment you endured and the pain and indignity you were forced to suffer at the hands of the corrupt Laos. Even more so because upon gaining your freedom, in what was the most unjust way, you left behind scores of individuals scarred for life in that god-forsaken place, who still endure to this day. Maybe in some small way - the pain and sacrifice you were forced to endure was set before you so that so many others could benefit from your hardship. Whilst what you endured should never be visited on any human being, and by the virtue of your morals, you least deserved such a treatment, at least you may take solace in that from the ashes of your suffering comes respite. At least in some way, whatever measure to those whose life you touched whilst incarcerated.

I haven't had much time to look through your site and only finished your book at 4am this morning (late for work yes!), however I lived in Thailand for nearly two years before moving to Australia from England. I have many Thai and Laos friends here. I feel moved by your experience knowing that any one of those people in that country could have ended up in this situation. Even if all I can do is offer my support and prayers to you over email I felt compelled to write.

Personally you have so lost much in that terrible journey that you both made during your time locked up within the Laos Gulag but through your experience comes light and hope to a world of darkness. If God moves in mysterious ways then maybe he chose you both as his messengers because of your ability to survive and your decency and integrity. Maybe if he had a plan to enlighten the world on this injustice, you two were the brave ones he entrusted with such an important duty. You have brought untold and yet unknown help and hope into the life of so many of those you touched on and probably many more you will never meet. God bless you both - this world is a better place with people like you in it.

Adrian Lister
Australia


18th. June 2008

Ms.Kay Danes
PO Box 391
Capalaba QLD 4157

Dear Kay,

Just a note to thank you for your presentation to the Redlands Probus Club yesterday. As it was a "Ladies Day" we had about 100 present. You are probably aware that our members are all retired and have come from a wide range of occupations.

You may be interested to learn that this was one of the best "Ladies Days" we have had and your presentation was very well received. The fact that you actually experienced the events you described added considerable weight to what you said. The additional information displayed by Power Point made everyone aware of possible dangers when traveling overseas. I'm sure the information you provided has not only made us more aware of possible hostility to travelers but also given us cause to consider the plight of those who have, and are, suffering unjustly.

We know you were limited for time and we can only regret that we did not hear more of your current activities in preventing the abuse of human rights in other places.

With your ease of presentation and your engaging personality we feel sure you will be much in demand as a speaker. We wish you well in your future endeavours.

Sincerely,

Denis J.Pickwell
President
Redlands Probus Club


Dear Mrs. Kay Danes,
I am inspired by your story. Knowing that you had witness and suffered first hand under the Lao Communist Government's human rights violations moves me to contact you. I thank you for your ongoing fight for the freedoms of those who do not have it in Laos. The Hmong left in the jungles of Laos has been suffering for over 30 years now and it is time the International Community comes together to fight this issue to the end. I pray for your support in fighting for the Human Rights of the Hmong in the Jungles. They are still being killed off everyday, especially the women and children. I am an average US citizen - Hmong American. I have no real voice. But I know that with your experience and voice, you will be heard by the US Congress and President Bush. They need people who have witnessed and experience the horrible treatment from the Lao Government to make them aware that the issue around General Vang Pao's arrest is a bigger problem than 11 men's fantasy/dream.

Kind regards,
Reona L. Vang
[United States of America]


"I could never have gotten through this living nightmare without Kay's support and encouragement over the last 2 years! Thanks, again for everything, especially the strength and determination I have because I have seen Kay survive and go on to do so much good for those that desperately need her wisdom!"
DEE HOGLE
Mother of Randy Sachs,
Canadian detained in Vietnam


The course of Kay Danes' life changed dramatically the day she was thrown into prison along with her husband, both quite innocent and should never have been there. Nowadays, Kay spends most of her time trying to let the world know about the conditions of these prisons where many of the inmates languish unknown to the world outside. Kay works hard to inform the world about her real life nightmare experiences. She is an amazing woman with a spine of steel and a compassionate spirit. She has won my admiration.

Anne McLaren
Perth, Western Australia


My life has changed thanks to Kay and thanks to God. Thanks to Kay for opening my eyes to the forgotten constant suffering of human beings who deserve dignity and humane treatment. Thanks to God for changing me without the hell of knowing the real plight of prison in a foreign land. I call myself a Prayer Advocate....one that pleads the cause of another because for right now that is what I do. In the future, I see lives changing because of mine. Thank you Kay for what you do, have done and will continue to do for those you promised to never forget when you were released. For their families and for all those who have never even heard of Kay Danes or Foreign Prisoner Support Service, there are many who are being helped by the hell you were subjected to. Thank you also for helping me. In my own simple pain of hurting for others I intend to help. May your life be long and healthy as you are a true GEM.

Gloria Moss
Seattle, WA USA


Thanks for all your help and support - it really encourages us to keep going as there are times when we just feel so helpless and useless.

Kind regards
Tony and Lorna Aggett - UK
[Parents of Jody Aggett in Thai Prison]

Professional Endorsements
What others have to say about Kay Danes
COMMUNITY WELFARE ORGANISATIONS/MEMBERS

Staff and students of Sunshine Coast TAFE (Community Services Faculty) were excited and honoured to have Kay Danes as a guest speaker in October 2006. Kay's moving presentation was a powerful lesson for students and staff alike, addressing so many themes simultaneously such as:

    a.. Advocacy
    b.. Human rights
    c.. Cultural appropriateness
    d.. Communication
    e.. Compassion
    f.. Hope, courage and resilience
    g.. Making a difference
    h.. Implications for each person's current or future community work practice
    i.. Parallel experiences of many indigenous Australians

All in attendance were deeply appreciative of Kay's willingness to talk candidly and openly. Her descriptive and skilful articulation of her experiences gave the listener a "fly-on-the-wall" perspective of third-world political processes and prisons, yet Kay was careful to respect the emotional safety of listeners.

Kay Danes's presentation and message is for everyone: students of human and community services; current community workers; teachers and lecturers; senior secondary students; and all socially aware community members. I would go further than to simply recommend Kay - I challenge you to experience the discomfort of Kay's story. I am confident that you will be rewarded with the power of knowing that you can make a difference.

Community Work Team (Community Services Faculty)
Sunshine Coast TAFE

Sunshine Coast TAFE
PO Box 5252 SCMC Nambour QLD 4560
http://www.sunshinecoast.tafe.qld.gov.au
CRICOS Provider: 02004B


Four words come to my mind when I think of Kay Danes, they are, Strength, Integrity, Justice and Courage. She is an exemplary speaker who heightens the frequency of the human conscience through her presentations. Kay Danes is engaging from the moment she speaks and immediately takes her audience on a journey into the deepest thoughts, feelings and experiences of people, the world over, who have been silenced through fear, injustice and those who have been disempowered by traumatic events.

Kay's experiences as a former political prisoner give her an insight that few have and because of this, Kay is obviously compelled to offer assistance to others in need. It is apparent that human right violations and social injustices affect her profoundly but she speaks with authenticity and conviction whilst at the same time, allows her audience to draw their own conclusions. Kay has a quiet strength, an incorruptible sense of integrity, a profound sense of justice and fearlessness in seeking to build a better world.

Kay's diplomatic efforts have earned her the respect, and the ear of, some of the world's most prominent individuals and government figures. Kay has been invited to speak at US Congressional Forums - not once - but twice. She has put the face on human rights in both Australia and Internationally. The manner Kay presents herself ensures the gentle truth behind her words can be heard - striking at the hearts and consciences of people who could not otherwise be reached. The amount of advancement in human rights Kay has been able to achieve in the 5 years since she gained her freedom from communist Laos has been nothing short of astounding.

Recently, I convened a Community Forum: Transcending Abuse, for which, Kay kindly agreed to be our opening speaker. Within minutes, Kay captured the audiences' attention and held it throughout. She set an exceptionally productive, constructive tone for the entire event. I was not at all surprised, when after the event I was contacted by numerous audience members who were deeply affected by Kay's life-changing, thought-provoking messages, wanting to know more about what they could do in their community to help others. Kay stimulates community spirit and arouses the determination to make the world a better place for all.

I believe Kay Danes is destined to continue to change the world in very positive ways.

Cassandra Steer
President

Redland Family Support Initiative
61 Spoonbill Street
Birkdale Qld 4159 Australia
Email: cteer2202@optusnet.com.au


During 2005 and 2006 I have been in occasional contact with Kay Danes in relation to advocacy issues. In November of 2006 I met with Kay Danes personally and attended a Tertiary institution seminar in Queensland, Australia where Kay was an invited guest speaker. It was clearly evident that Kay Danes' dedication for the deliverance of equitable justice for human rights, as defined by International Law, regardless of race, religion or political beliefs is testimonial to her determination to advocate and personally assist individuals and communities whom are at risk of harm at an international level.

Kay Danes voluntary commitment and dedication extends to advocate for the social justice and humane treatment of Australian citizens and other Internationals that are at risk of, or are incarcerated in foreign prisons and who suffer deprivation of rights and may be subjected to abuse. This voluntary assistance and support provided by Kay Danes extends to the families of those persons held in a foreign prison. Kay Danes (and her husband Kerry) were incarcerated in a Laotian Prison for 1o months in 2000-2001, and suffered abuse and torture. The Danes had not committed any crime. The Australian Government politically intervened in this instance to have the Danes protected and released. I encourage humanitarian sectors and Tertiary institutions to invite Kay Danes as a specialist speaker to increase knowledge of foreign humanitarian processes and to heighten the awareness of humanitarian issues that many people may not know exist. Kay has credibility, integrity and represents the epiphany of human spirit and personal courage that she has earned through personal experience.

Russell. S. Treweek
Dip. Community Welfare Work (Aust)
Advocate for Child Protection.


Kay Danes is testimony to resilience, dedicating a great deal of her life to advocating human rights for people all over the world. This was not how Kay's life used to be, nor how she ever imagined it to be! Her experiences in the Laos jail changed her life forever but in helping others, Kay accepts her vulnerability in reliving her trauma. She has learned that coping with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), can be a daily challenge.

PTSD is a psychiatric disorder that can occur following the experience or witnessing of life-threatening events such as military combat, natural disasters, terrorist incidents, serious accidents, or violent personal assaults like rape. For those who have experienced such events, such as the torture Kay and her husband endured in Laos, it is not unusual to experience nightmares and flashbacks, anxiety attacks, have difficulty sleeping, and feel detached from reality. This can affect every day life but Kay has risen above all this, and while she still seeks support in coping with the impact of PTSD she has inspired many across the world. Kay has turned what for many would have been a totally debilitating experience, to a reflection of strength and determination to make a difference. She is an example of the power of one, of intelligent advocacy and dogged determination to make change.

Dawn Spinks
Manager
Queensland Safe Communities Support Centre (QSCSC)
www.safecommunitiesqld.org
Co-vice Chair,
Australian Safe Communities Foundation (ASCF)
Email: dawns@qisu.org.au


Many thanks for making yourself available to talk to our staff about some of your unforgettable experiences and of the work that you are now dedicated to for the benefit of all people, particularly those in unfortunate circumstances of oppression and fear. We wish you well and in our own efforts to help the poor in our neighborhood, we feel a certain amount of empathy and concern. Hopefully those in need, be it political, material even spiritual, will feel the helping hand of good people. May your work be a constant challenge as well as a source of great satisfaction.

Brother Brian Cunningham
For and on behalf of our staff
Boystown Family Care (Qld)


NON- GOVERNMENT ORGANISATIONS
On behalf of the United Laos Action Center (ULAC) whose main goal is to promote freedom, democracy, development and human rights for the people of Laos.

For Laotians all over the free world who are concerned for our less fortunate fellow Laotians at home, Kay Danes is a household word. We speak of her with affection, a sense of gratitude and hope. The sad and frightening story of how Kerry and Kay Danes fell victims to and suffered under the lack of justice and rule of law in the Lao People's Democratic Republic [Lao PDR] is familiar to many of us who care about human rights. It is a story of arbitrary arrest, detention without charge, trial without due process, horrendous prison conditions, brutal inhumane treatment of prisoners and torture, which has, over the last three decades under a one-party dictatorship, grossly violated the human rights of thousands of people, Laotians and foreigners alike. It was a story that had been perennially recorded by foreign government agencies and international human rights organizations without much avail. Overseas Lao organizations had cried out against the human rights situation in Laos ever since we first escaped. But it fell on deaf ears. The interest of the international press in the Danes case did raise public awareness by quite a notch. But it was not until Kay launched herself wholeheartedly to right those wrongs that the human rights situation in the Lao PDR became visible on the radar screen of world policy makers from Canberra to Washington DC. No sooner than she regained freedom, Kay began helping her fellow political prisoners through a the Foreign Prisoner Support Service. Its website contains detailed and timely information on wide-ranging human rights issues and situations in many countries, and is a major link among human rights movements around the world, particularly in the Lao community.

Despite the risk of personal safety and the personal expense of energy, time and money and despite the painful memory of her ordeal, Kay travelled to Washington DC [2002] to help Lao freedom and human rights organizations around the world to establish our Organization, ULAC, as a coordinating center. While there, through the US and international press and media, Kay let the world as well as the US Congress in on the terrible secretive abuses going on in Laos. One year later, Kay travelled across the world to follow up with the US Congress to plead the case for victims of human rights abuses in the Lao PDR. She tirelessly presented the case with the State Department, including the US Ambassador to the Lao PDR, Mr. Douglas Hartwick. She went knocking on doors of members of both the House and Senate. Apart from Kay Danes' tenacious commitment and personal sacrifice, what is so extraordinary about her advocacy is that she is dedicating her energy, efforts and activities totally to other victims, those she has bonded with whom she calls 'kin and friends' as well as those she never met.

In her public statements as well as private conversation, never once did Kay mention anything about her own experience. The words she spoke were often accompanied by tears. They were tears of compassion and tears of urgent concern for others who are languishing in the Lao gulags without any future. Those of us who have come in touch with her, love and admire and think of her most for this. Kay Danes is not a fire-breathing podium-thumping advocate for human rights. She tells it like it is, quietly, and straight from the heart. To her, victims of human rights are not statistics for debate and analysed in public forums, hearings, and the media. To her they are, each and everyone, persons, human beings with dignity, capable of feeling pains and humiliations. They all are her brothers and sisters. For lack of a better phrasing, Kay has put the faces on human rights abuse in the Lao PDR. When visiting the FPSS website, or listening to her public statements, I for one, feel that I am in those victims' place and it is physically and mentally unimaginable. I have little doubt the policy makers of the world feel the same. For this reason, I and my fellow Laotians both in and out of Laos, firmly believe that Kay Danes is the most effective mover we have as an ally in our long-standing struggle to give back the dignity and fundamental rights of our fellow Laotians.

Dr. Sin Vilay
Executive Director
United Lao Action Centre [ULAC]
Washington DC 2004


We of the Lao Nationalist Reform Party, offer our profound thanks and grateful appreciation to Kay Danes for traveling to the United States, Washington DC, and giving such a moving testimony at the US Congressional Forum for Democracy and Economic Development for Laos, Oct 1, 2002.

Lieutenant Colonel Khambang Sibounheuang
Party Leader Lao Nationalist Reform Party


As we know, Kay Danes has personally experienced unlawful imprisonment in Laos. From her personal experience, and her commitment to help others in similar situations, Kay contributes greatly to the awareness and understanding of people suffering throughout the world, particularly those behind the razor wire and prisons without bars. Kay's message will pierce through even the hardest heart and the soul of her audience.

Dr Pao Saykao (M.B.; B.S.)
Victoria Australia


Our thoughts turn gratefully to those who have made our progress possible. And in this spirit we say, simply but sincerely thank you and best wishes. Thank you very much for your kind regards and good wishes for our democratic movement. For us here in the US, we are following up on the new sanctions against the military regime, and other tough measures, such as bringing Burma issue before the UN Security Council. We deeply appreciate your support and solidarity. Thanks a lot.
Best wishes,

Steven H. Moe
National Coalition Group for the Union of Burma - Washington, DC


'Nightmare in Laos' is a personal and disturbing account of the wrongful arrest and imprisonment of Australians Kay and Kerry Danes in Laos in 2001 and 2002.

The couple, managers of a security firm in Laos were accused of stealing sapphires. There was no real evidence to support the charges, and interrogations were carried out without any real basis to presume there would be a 'guilty' verdict if brought to trial. Kay Danes writes about the foul and appalling conditions in the jail inhabited by both Laotian nationals and foreign prisoners. She recounts witnessing the effects of senseless and brutal psychological and physical torture and the complete disregard for human rights. This information is unsettling with its implications of the lack of assistance and justice for foreign prisoners. The desperation of many of the inmates, whose crimes were often minor or manufactured, lends an urgent intensity to the writing.

The fact that there was often no recourse to legal representation for numbers of prisoners is in stark contrast to the support that the Danes were able to muster for their cause. Kay Danes writes of the unwavering resolve of her husband, and of her frustrated but gritty manoeuvring to improve conditions in the jail. All of this occurs during a desperate time, of isolation far from children, family and friends. Kay gives due credit to the efforts of her father, the diplomatic approaches by the Department of Foreign Affairs in Australia and the Herculean task of the senior members of the Australian Embassy in Laos, which eventually brought about their release.

In the conclusion, Danes writes of the promise made to prisoners to work for their rights after she has gained her freedom. She relates some of the successes she has had since that time and of some of the extraordinary reconciliations brought about by her efforts on behalf of foreign prisoners.

Gina Louis
Author and Talent Agent
Australia

Reader Book Reviews
What others have to say about Nightmare In Laos
"Kay writes from the heart, and her experience of life as a prisoner in Laos makes compelling reading."

Margaret Reynolds
National President United Nations of Australia


As the title of her book says, Danes endured a nightmare in Laos, imprisoned with her husband Kerry, for alleged wrongdoings related to a coveted gem mine in the country's north. The Danes ran a security firm that ended up being responsible for more than a tonne of sapphires from the Huay Xai mine. Kay says she and her husband, a former SAS soldier, were effectively held hostage for 10 months in Phontong prison by a "paranoid communist regime" intent on taking over the mine and getting back any gems spirited out of the country by the Danish mine manager who fled to Bangkok.

There were other aspects to the drama. The Danes also ran a firm in Thailand that provided security for an expatriate businessman who was involved in a struggle with one of the Kingdom's most notorious corporate figures. This aspect of the story is not fully explained in the book, presumably for legal reasons, given the Thai businessman's fearsome record of taking his opponents to court. Did this man pay the Lao government to keep the Danes - responsible for his opponent's personal security - in jail? You are led to believe that may have happened, but its not fully revealed or spelled out.

Danes writes emotively. Phontong is a "gulag" where prisoners live in squalor and are routinely tortured. "Gulag" seems a little over-the-top, but the bulk of text is well written and credible. How many other farangs have emerged to tell the tales from inside a Lao jail? Danes' account of her fellow prisoners is moving and upsetting. I was left wondering why prison officials in Vientiane would feel the need to beat prisoners - foreign, Hmong or Lao - and commit ugly acts such as burning people's genitals.

This book reinforces the belief shared by a number of Western embassies here that the Lao regime includes some ugly figures, not much better than the generals in Rangoon. A book like this, exposing the dark underbelly of Laos, is a stark contrast to the country's tourist promotions and the gentle manner of the bulk of its people. In the beginning one gets the impression that Kay Danes is playing a game with soldiers, blissfully unaware of the risks. At the end of the 10-month confinement and separation from her young children, she seems close to emotional breakdown. But you fully understand why she is campaigning on behalf of those suffering such outrageous cruelty and neglect in Asian jails.

Paul O'Brien
United Kingdom


What a compelling story. It is the realisation of every parent's worst fears and nightmares--being taken away from your children and left in a place that seems alien and cruel. The horrifying accounts of cruelty and suffering shocked me. I felt that one of the strongest elements of the book was the author's realisation of the extent to which the people suffer, particularly the Hmong, and the determination that grew in her to help tell their story. This book appeals to anybody who has ever felt fear--and that is everybody. It's about losing everything but the support of family and friends, and realising that that is the most valuable thing any of us can have. It has drama, action, political intrigue, tension, sorrow and joy, and is at its centre an inspirational story about never giving up, and fighting for what you believe in. I thoroughly enjoyed it!

Jenny Robertson
United Kingdom


Nightmare in Laos is an amazing and inspiring book about two innocent people caught up in a nightmare. Definitely a must read if you are particularly interested in human rights issues. Everyone deserves to have their basic human rights met. Kay and Kerry Danes story is an extraordinary journey. What they experienced as innocent people is dismaying. What other people incarcerated with them on false or no charges, was disturbing. As was the plight of political prisoners who simply, for having an opinion, are made to suffer through the most awful treatment; and for those prisoners who are guilty of crimes, there is still no excuse for denying them basic human rights.

I will not forget this story or the wonderful characters that Kay encountered. I hope one day that there will be a time when no-one has to suffer, as they are, such violations of human rights.

Liza S.
Brisbane, Queensland
Australia

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